we all have a part to play in all our undertaking before God can come in

God will never do what you ought to do for you.
Is true that we need God's grace and blessings in what we do but he can only come in when we have concluded our part.

You can't sit at home all day praying out your asking God to bless you with riches when you have nothing doing. Get out of your house and get something to start doing, only then will he make you rich though your work. We ask for the gift of intelligence, yet we don't read books, how then do you want God to help you?

From stories I've heard and from people's life experience,it is clear that, you and you alone is holding yourself back.

I am Just getting up from my bed after having 8 hours of rest. 

I am dull and I'm begining to nag about any thing and Evey thing around me. 

Saying nice words to any one or replying with manners to any one is like punishing me.

I am all set and ready to go out, but my expression all round seems like l am going for a fight. 

Then l stop for a second and I'm like "why am l like this today?"

At the moment l can't even say why because l asked that question still in this nagging state and I'm not even patient to listen to my self.

Okay, 

Good,  

am on the wheels yet l am fighting with the cars and even the road itself. 

Finally, I've reached my destination.

It's evening,

I'm back home,

How was my day?

You should know the answer,

Very bad,

I fought with every body and every thing.

What a day !!!

                                      WHAT HAPPENED TODAY?

                        WHY WAS MY DAY LIKE THIS?

INTRODUCE YOU TO YOURSELF

learn to know and love yourself, it is an important aspect of your life that you need to look into. do not look down on your self because you do not possess what others possess because you are unique! and because you are unique, you possess some qualities that they do not have. if you have been seeing yourself this way, then its time to stop it. you have to learn to be fair to yourself. let me make this clear to you" you deserve to live, not just to live, you deserve to live happily".

l try to be good to everyone, try to love them the best way that l can, try to be honest to them and even try to tell them who l really am through my actions and words but the truth is that some people do not like to be told the truth, they claim that all the want is the truth but its a lie. If you find yourself in such situation, 'its okay', do not let them change who you really are, just keep doing and living your life, just the way you know will make you happy.

life well spent.

 

live your life, be happy and make other people around you happy. do not hurt anyone because you won't want any one to hurt you. live a life worthy of praise. don't criticize people because you do not know the state of that person.

love and be loved. don't hide yourself in the dark cos you feel and think that if people should know the real you, they wont love you anymore, don't wear the mask of another person cos it wont fit you and as such, it will fall off anytime, wear yours cos there's someone for you. someone who will love you the way you are! 


cheer up! smile! be nice! do what makes you happy and live a well spent life. if you do all this, then you've lived and not just existed.

don't stress yourself too much.

 Be right with God, he wants just that.

Do not give yourself too much of a headache, trying to find answers for yourself about certain things in your life, because if you are at peace with God, he will give you the answers you seek when the time is right.

just for today, keep your trap shut !

do not judge, so that you will not be judged......
we read that in the bible and we still do not understand what it means,
why do we want to do nothing but tarnish other people's image?

the best thing to do when you hear or see something bad about someone, is to approach the person, but if you can't approach the person, then forget about what you saw or heard.
you must not say everything that you know about someone,
there are some truths that we should take to our graves.
destroying people's lives by what we say about them is not something we want other people to do to us, so let's not do it to other people.

things that we have said about other people have deprived them of many favors and  blessings that you may have gained from it too.
thick twice before destroying another person !